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Again, my gut tells me that you're trying to figure out how to act here with a WUSSY response that will make her love you. And to address your question of how to communicate that you're a confident, sexually aware man...You do this by NOT trying to please her, saying what she wants to hear, and kissing up to her. Copy and paste the conversations ideas and tips in your Advanced Series and use it online.But you can ease up a little as you get to know a woman better. and you'll get it.***QUESTION*** Dear Dave, I have been reading your newsletter for about a year now and it works great!! I have always been cocky and funny even before knowing what c&f was, you just helped me realize exactly why I was succeeding with women.There is this girl who is probably a 9-10, but has had a boyfriend for some time now.I enjoy traveling, working out, yoga, music, and dining out in NYC.I am playful and fun and have a lot to offer the right man.
The one thing it DOESN'T mention (and the one thing that NO female profile EVER mention) is what makes this woman feel ATTRACTION for a man. This woman sat down one night at her computer, and said to herself: **"I'm tired of the dating game.
My question is as follows: I really want this girl and she seems to respond to my cocky and funny routine, in fact I think she likes me, but what do I do about the boyfriend situation?? Every month or two, when you're ordering a drink from her say, "Hey, are you still married?
What are the odds I can actually end up with this chick?? " This is funny because you're busting on her and at the same time asking if she's still with her BF.
**"My ideal match is the kind of guy that isn't afraid of being himself. He is thoughtful, considerate and knows how to treat a lady. when a woman is writing about herself, she's usually at a point in her life where she's lonely... OF COURSE she's going to write all this sappy stuff.
Last but not least, my ideal man is attractive with a good sense of humor..." So what do most guys do when they read this? they write back something like: "Hi, I'm a nice attractive SWM who has a sense of humor, high morals, is honest, and also believes that a good friendship is the foundation for a great relationship." UGH! But that doesn't change ANYTHING about what is going to get her attention and make her feel ATTRACTION.