They only call for a ‘favor,’ and the pervasive conversations they do have are of burning nostalgia for the epic parties they threw back in college.If he does have friends, pay attention to their interactions. Do they talk about meaningful subjects other than sports, girls, cars or money? It is completely acceptable to have a dish in the sink or a shirt on the bed.On paper, it appears these actions and behaviors are changeable, but it’s not that easy.First, there must be an acknowledgment by the person—an unearthing of the origination of the action, .The inability to keep a clean home and care for his belongings, speaks to the lack of control he has over his mind. If a man leaves you when you are trying to express yourself, or the conversation gets uncomfortable and heated—he doesn’t know how to cope properly. If he physically runs away, he abandons his heart too. If a man cannot express his love for you, he does not love himself.
These are signs he is unwilling to share his life with you and is a If he can not make a plan or commit to an event a week away, or even a month away, he will not commit to a lifetime with you.
Are you always pulling him along in every decision, plan, thought and action?
You know the feeling—you are walking in quicksand with 180 to 200 pounds latched to your ankles.
This is a strong sign you are ready to look in the mirror and do your work.
I hope you take time to look inside and become aware.