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Dating a commitment phobic man can be a fairly stressful experience for a woman who sees herself married with children in the next five years.
It’s an attractive prospect to you, and yet the guy who you want to marry seems to break out in a cold sweat whenever the subject comes up.
However for a woman, the childbirth process takes much longer and can only be repeated several times.
Meanwhile the woman will also want to have her man around long enough that he can help to support and protect both her and the baby. It’s an age old struggle but fortunately one that women usually win (that’s the good news).
Obviously this will start to feel threatening for him and will start to feel as though you are conspiring against him.
If on the other hand you seem not particularly ready to commit then he might feel he needs to commit quickly in order to ‘secure’ you – and as though he’s making the commitment out of his own free will rather than because he feels he has to.
Men watch films like James Bond and see a character who can have any woman he wants and who journeys around the world fighting bad guys and making a difference.
But then at the same time some guys would argue that ‘maturity’ is over rated if it means selling out on your dreams and settling for less.What You Can Do If you want to change your man’s thinking and make him a lot less phobic of commitment then you need to understand these aspects and somehow make sure that you fit in to the future.You also need to make use of some other very male traits and tendencies.Another biological aspect to consider here is the fact that women have much more of a ‘time limit’ than men when it comes to these things.That is to say that women have the menopause when it’s too late for them to have children, whereas men can have children at any age, meaning that it’s far less pressing for them.